Relationships are in everything

And most importantly with self. We forget this along the way.

I’ve been facilitating clients, a shoulder for friends and navigating my own twisted versions of love for several decades. As a daughter, a sibling, a lover, a wife, a friend and a mother of five. I’ve learned, how you do relationships is how you do them, even though the other person is in a different role and it often doesn’t seem that way.

What if getting it right, is simply, getting it true for you?

“When I chose to dissolve my marriage, I also set the intention that I didn’t want to fight with him, over anything, to include our kids.  Initially, I created a beautiful story that I wanted to play out with him. I wanted to let go of the coupleship and keep the rest. I mean, why not?  We were raising kids together, had been family for many years and on many levels, he was my best friend. By this stage in our relationship, we really knew each other and I really loved him despite no longer desiring to be his wife…”

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What contribution can I be to you?

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“I’ve learned; commitment to self creates stronger relationships, you can love someone and know that you don’t want to be with them, things don’t have to end badly to end, and most importantly, the invisible contracts live on past the letting go and continue to dance their way through new choices when left intact. Deal with them.”

-Michelle Lyall

Success! You’re on the list.

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A relationship with you creates…

The authentic you showing up.

So often we are trying to fix the outside, change and be what is required and that limits us. It turns us into something else. When we choose to nurture a relationship with ourselves, we get to show up fully in our lives and enjoy more.

Better relationships with others.

We think we need to change and fix the problems in our relationships. When we choose to focus on ourselves and nuture what we need, we show up as our best version by default in relation to others and that is the only place we can truly grow together and fall apart from one another. When you have you, it doesn’t matter what anyone else chooses.

The best life has to offer.

Regardless of anything else, this is YOUR life and the more time you spend trying to fit in, change and judge yourself, that is a whole lot of life you are missing. When you choose to love you first and foremost, life becomes the greatest adventure where laughing is normal.It all starts with a choice, what is one small choice you can make for you today?

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About Michelle Lyall

It’s Michelle Lyall.

An inspirational coach, mind/body intuitive, business visionary, mother, writer, joy seeker and an adventure junkie.

Using integrative therapies in facilitation, she has an incredible capacity for seeing many different perspectives and opening up possibilities for you to see the greatness in you.

She bridges extended education with over 20 years of experience in experiential therapies and energetic modalities into a large toolbox where her facilitation and dedication to each session, goes beyond any point of view or limitation that may otherwise arise.

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