Just last night chatting with some girlfriends about the adventures of dating and the joy of men, we spoke about experiences that were incredibly fun and expansive and others that did not turn out as dynamic as we'd have liked them to. Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com I remember talking with one of my closest … Continue reading Man O’ Man…Oh Man
In the dissolution of our marriage, I chose not to fight with him over our children, I gave into what he asked for and I gave into letting them go, to live with him, to get out of the way and I chose to give them something I hadn't been willing to give before, I fired myself as their mom.
I’d like to say I never wanted out of this life again, that would be a lie. What is significantly different after that experience, is having a lot of tools.
What if it was never about sex, being good, being bad or compromise, what if it was never about anything more than an energy and a choosing beyond a stuck point that cycles you in and out and through the past to determine where to go in the future.